Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Time it takes to Climax in SEX

Been wondering how long does a guy takes to reach orgasm that is considered good or good enough!

Some guys climax too quickly and that is referred to as "premature ejaculation". PE has been defined as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration. It could be arousal levels were too high bringing about a climax too soon when sexual excitement, some anxiety and over stimulation are common features. Now, I guess reaching the peak in a short time might be a turn-off for the partner as he might have just gotten into the act.

On the other hand, there is a condition called "delayed ejaculation" where a man either does not have orgasms at all or can't have an orgasm until after prolonged intercourse which might last for 30–45 minutes or more. DE is the inability to ejaculate or persistent difficulty in achieving orgasm despite the presence of normal sexual desire and sexual stimulation. Men who are unable to ejaculate during intercourse or in some cases, during any sexual activity in the presence of a partner, can suffer from frustration and embarrassment. They might be suffering from performance anxiety when they are trying too hard. In these instances, the man is so concerned about giving his partner pleasure that he loses track of his own.

So how long is considered good enough? According to my research on the internet, normally a man can achieve orgasm within 2–4 minutes of active thrusting during sexual intercourse.

Now, which category do you guys belong to?

Me? Go read my post on "Adventure in the Night" for the answer! LMAO...
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  1. min-45 mins is simply too long for both parties. My preference in 4min-8min...however all these subject to your passion towards your partner.

  2. I think 3-4 mins is okay... else will be turned to a joined-exercise instead.

  3. @Sky ... let me check with your dear! LMAO...

    @pikey ... that may be too short but then it all depends on your partner, some like it longer!

  4. and this is the intelligent discourse u were talking about?haha

    skyhawk, 4-8 minutes? isn't that a bit too short?

  5. @Drew: hahaha...go check lah...

    @Pikey: 3-4 mis enough for bear meh? lolx!

    @Lucifer: hahaha, may be it suffices for my standard...your expectation so high one meh?

  6. @Lucifer: decided to give my bigger head a rest as it appears that interest is directed at what comes out of my smaller head instead ... LMAO
    btw, is 30 mins enough for ya? if yes, leave me your number for a rendezvous!!! hahaha...

    @Sky: let ya know soon!! hehehe...

  7. In my experience, 30 min to 45 min is a good all-in sex or love making session. During which, one could reach multiple near to climax stage but slow down to control the shoot, until to the end of session. Unless you are heading for a quickie...;-D

  8. @Ng: I completely agree with you! A good session of love making should last almost an hour from foreplay culminating to a climax!